thrive.

January 25, 2018 § Leave a comment

“My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style” ― Maya Angelou

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Towne-Fire-Road-Photo-2

Pescadero Creek Park

https://parks.smcgov.org/pescadero-creek-park-trails

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“Kindness can thrive even amongst cruelty.” – Sarah Maas

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San Gregorio Creek

http://www.stetsonengineers.com/project/san-gregorio-creek-watermaster/

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“Love is the wanting, and the having, and the choosing, and the becoming. Love is the desire to see the person we love be and become all he or she is capable of being and becoming. Love is a willingness to lay down our own personal plans, desires, and agenda for the good of the relationship. Love is delayed gratification, pleasure, and pain. Love is being able to live and thrive apart, but choosing to be together.” – Matthew Kelly

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PCH Route 1

PCH Route 1

http://theroadery.com/self-guided-tour-highway-1

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“Perfectionism doesn’t believe in practice shots. It doesn’t believe in improvement. Perfectionism has never heard that anything worth doing is worth doing badly–and that if we allow ourselves to do something badly we might in time become quite good at it. Perfectionism measures our beginner’s work against the finished work of masters. Perfectionism thrives on comparison and competition. It doesn’t know how to say, “Good try,” or “Job well done.” The critic does not believe in creative glee–or any glee at all, for that matter. No, perfectionism is a serious matter.” – Julia Cameron

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road to Martins Beach

road to Martins Beach

https://www.mercurynews.com/2017/09/19/coastal-commission-begins-crackdown-against-tech-billionaire-to-open-martins-beach/

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“Why waste time proving over and over how great you are, when you could be getting better? Why hide deficiencies instead of overcoming them? Why look for friends or partners who will just shore up your self-esteem instead of ones who will also challenge you to grow? And why seek out the tried and true, instead of experiences that will stretch you? The passion for stretching yourself and sticking to it, even (or especially) when it’s not going well, is the hallmark of the growth mindset. This is the mindset that allows people to thrive during some of the most challenging times in their lives.” – Carol Dweck

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Devil's Slide Nude Beach

Devil’s Slide Nude Beach

https://www.tripsavvy.com/devils-slide-nude-beach-1477738

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“Happiness is not something that you can find, acquire, or achieve directly. You have to get the conditions right and then wait. Some of those conditions are within you, such as coherence among the parts and levels of your personality. Other conditions require relationships to things beyond you: Just as plants need sun, water, and good soil to thrive, people need love, work, and a connection to something larger. It is worth striving to get the right relationships between yourself and others, between yourself and your work, and between yourself and something larger than yourself. If you get these relationships right, a sense of purpose and meaning will emerge.” ― Jonathan Haidt

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Half Moon Bay

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Tourism-g32469-Half_Moon_Bay_California-Vacations.html

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“Men,you say you want a strong, intelligent, truly independent woman who wants you rather than needs you, who inspires you, who pushes you towards being yourself, who can stick by you through the hardest times, and who can be your rock through life’s obstacles.
But you need to know that a truly strong, independent woman does not walk through life with her heart wide open. She has had to put up walls to block toxicity to obtain her strength. She is skeptical and always on alert from a lifetime of defense against predators. She is going to be a bit jaded, a little cynical, and a little scary because those qualities come with the struggle of obtaining that strength that gravitates you. She is going to doubt and question your good intentions because it has become her adaptability instincts that have allowed her to thrive.
She is not a ball of sunshine. She has flaws. She has a past. She has her demons. She knows better than to just let down her barriers for you simply because you voice a desire to enter. You have to prove your right of entrance. She will assume the worst of you because the worst has happened. If you want her to see otherwise, prove her wrong.”
Maggie Georgiana Young

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prosperity.

January 23, 2018 § Leave a comment

“That’s what courage is. Taking your disappointments and your failures, your guilt and your shame, all the wounds received and inflicted, and sinking them in the past. Starting again. Damning yesterday and facing tomorrow with your head held high. Times change. It’s those that see it coming, and plan for it, and change themselves to suit that prosper.”
Joe Abercrombie

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http://www.conservationalliance.com/organizations/utah-rivers-council/

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“Learning is an ornament in prosperity, a refuge in adversity, and a provision in old age.”
Aristotle

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Colorado river

http://www.onlyinyourstate.com/utah/rivers-in-ut/

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“The problem with people that ignore people they dislike is they can’t ignore them. Anger carries a person in your mind forever, whether you choose to speak to them or not. Therefore, don’t mistake prosperity or accomplishments as resolution. You can’t escape what you will not deal with. The day you can stand in the room with someone and not be affected is the day you truly moved on.” ― Shannon L. Alder

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Virgin river

http://utahrivers.org/2015/09/01/what-we-believe/

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“For me, trees have always been the most penetrating preachers. I revere them when they live in tribes and families, in forests and groves. And even more I revere them when they stand alone. They are like lonely persons. Not like hermits who have stolen away out of some weakness, but like great, solitary men, like Beethoven and Nietzsche. In their highest boughs the world rustles, their roots rest in infinity; but they do not lose themselves there, they struggle with all the force of their lives for one thing only: to fulfil themselves according to their own laws, to build up their own form, to represent themselves. Nothing is holier, nothing is more exemplary than a beautiful, strong tree. When a tree is cut down and reveals its naked death-wound to the sun, one can read its whole history in the luminous, inscribed disk of its trunk: in the rings of its years, its scars, all the struggle, all the suffering, all the sickness, all the happiness and prosperity stand truly written, the narrow years and the luxurious years, the attacks withstood, the storms endured. And every young farmboy knows that the hardest and noblest wood has the narrowest rings, that high on the mountains and in continuing danger the most indestructible, the strongest, the ideal trees grow.” ― Hermann Hesse

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memory.

January 16, 2018 § Leave a comment

“What matters in life is not what happens to you but what you remember and how you remember it.” ― Gabriel García Márquez

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little cottonwood canyon

little cottonwood canyon

http://www.pine-canyon.info/northern-utah-skiing-with-a-chance-of-little-cottonwood-canyon-snowbird-utah/

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“Lost love is still love. It takes a different form, that’s all. You can’t see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those senses weaken another heightens. Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it.” ― Mitch Albom

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State Road 150, Utah

State Road 150, Utah

https://rootsrated.com/stories/one-of-the-highest-mountain-roads-in-utah-mirror-lake-scenic-byway

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“Lost opportunities, lost possibilities, feelings we can never get back. That’s part of what it means to be alive. But inside our heads – at least that’s where I imagine it – there’s a little room where we store those memories. A room like the stacks in this library. And to understand the workings of our own heart we have to keep on making new reference cards. We have to dust things off every once in awhile, let in fresh air, change the water in the flower vases. In other words, you’ll live forever in your own private library.”
Haruki Murakami,

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UT NorthStansburyWSA

NORTH STANSBURY MOUNTAINS WILDERNESS

https://www.blm.gov/programs/national-conservation-lands/utah/north-stansbury-mountains-wsa

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When Great Trees Fall

When great trees fall,
rocks on distant hills shudder,
lions hunker down
in tall grasses,
and even elephants
lumber after safety.

When great trees fall
in forests,
small things recoil into silence,
their senses
eroded beyond fear.

When great souls die,
the air around us becomes
light, rare, sterile.
We breathe, briefly.
Our eyes, briefly,
see with
a hurtful clarity.
Our memory, suddenly sharpened,
examines,
gnaws on kind words
unsaid,
promised walks
never taken.

Great souls die and
our reality, bound to
them, takes leave of us.
Our souls,
dependent upon their
nurture,
now shrink, wizened.
Our minds, formed
and informed by their
radiance,
fall away.
We are not so much maddened
as reduced to the unutterable ignorance
of dark, cold
caves.

And when great souls die,
after a period peace blooms,
slowly and always
irregularly. Spaces fill
with a kind of
soothing electric vibration.
Our senses, restored, never
to be the same, whisper to us.
They existed. They existed.
We can be. Be and be
better. For they existed.” ― Maya Angelou

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north_utah_valley

North Utah Valley

http://www.willhiteweb.com/provo_hiking/y_mountain_269.htm

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“The things we do outlast our mortality. The things we do are like monuments that people build to honor heroes after they’ve died. They’re like the pyramids that the Egyptians built to honor the pharaohs. Only instead of being made of stone, they’re made out of the memories people have of you.” ― R.J. Palacio

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2015-north-utah-county-page

http://www.utahhome.me/utah-county-north/

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“You are lucky to be one of those people who wishes to build sand castles with words, who is willing to create a place where your imagination can wander. We build this place with the sand of memories; these castles are our memories and inventiveness made tangible. So part of us believes that when the tide starts coming in, we won’t really have lost anything, because actually only a symbol of it was there in the sand. Another part of us thinks we’ll figure out a way to divert the ocean. This is what separates artists from ordinary people: the belief, deep in our hearts, that if we build our castles well enough, somehow the ocean won’t wash them away. I think this is a wonderful kind of person to be.” ― Anne Lamott

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depend.

January 14, 2018 § Leave a comment

“Life is like a prism. What you see depends on how you turn the glass.” – Jonathan Kellerman

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Mount Timpanogos

Mount Timpanogos

http://www.onlyinyourstate.com/utah/epic-mountains-in-ut/

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“The greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances.” – Martha Washington

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Mt. Peale

https://www.templesquare.com/blog/explore-utah-mountains/

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“From the standpoint of daily life, however, there is one thing we do know: that we are here for the sake of each other – above all for those upon whose smile and well-being our own happiness depends, and also for the countless unknown souls with whose fate we are connected by a bond of sympathy. Many times a day I realize how much my own outer and inner life is built upon the labors of my fellow men, both living and dead, and how earnestly I must exert myself in order to give in return as much as I have received.” – Albert Einstein

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relocate.

January 13, 2018 § Leave a comment

“Our bodies know that they belong; it is our minds that make our lives so homeless. Guided by longing, belonging is the wisdom of rhythm. When we are in rhythm with our own nature, things flow and balance naturally. Every fragment does not have to be relocated, reordered; things cohere and fit according to their deeper impulse and instinct. Our modern hunger to belong is particularly intense. An increasing majority of people feel no belonging. We have fallen out of rhythm with life. The art of belonging is the recovery of the wisdom of rhythm.” ― John O’Donohue

 

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Highway 96 along the Klamath RIver

https://www.kcet.org/shows/socal-connected/how-much-can-california-ask-of-its-rivers

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“Finally, I began to write about becoming an older woman and the trepidation it stirred. The small, telling “betrayals” of my body. The stalled, eerie stillness in my writing, accompanied by an ache for some unlived destiny. I wrote about the raw, unsettled feelings coursing through me, the need to divest and relocate, the urge to radically simplify and distill life into a new, unknown meaning.” – Sue Monk Kidd

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Klamath River

Klamath River

http://vacations.humboldtca.com/Natural_Beauty.html

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“Time machines, magic portals, transporters, worm holes, flying carpets, relocation charms—such things do exist. They’re called books.” ― Richelle E. Goodrich

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preferences.

January 8, 2018 § Leave a comment

“We all get lost once in a while, sometimes by choice, sometimes due to forces beyond our control. When we learn what it is our soul needs to learn, the path presents itself. Sometimes we see the way out but wander further and deeper despite ourselves; the fear, the anger or the sadness preventing us returning. Sometimes we prefer to be lost and wandering, sometimes it’s easier. Sometimes we find our own way out. But regardless, always, we are found.” – Cecilia Ahern

 

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Canyon-of-the-Ancients

https://www.gocolorado.com/off-the-tourist-track-the-quieter-side-of-southwestern-colorado/

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“Books say: She did this because. Life says: She did this. Books are where things are explained to you; life is where things aren’t. I’m not surprised some people prefer books.” – Julian Barnes

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Canyons of the Ancients aerial view

Canyons of the Ancients aerial view

https://www.colorado.com/national-monuments/canyons-ancients-national-monument-anasazi-heritage-center-blm

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“The truth may be puzzling. It may take some work to grapple with. It may be counterintuitive. It may contradict deeply held prejudices. It may not be consonant with what we desperately want to be true. But our preferences do not determine what’s true.” – Carl Sagan

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Canyons of the Ancients National Monument

Canyons of the Ancients National Monument

https://www.blm.gov/programs/national-conservation-lands/colorado/canyons-of-the-ancients

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“Even as a child, she had preferred night to day, had enjoyed sitting out in the yard after sunset, under the star-speckled sky listening to frogs and crickets. Darkness soothed. It softened the sharp edges of the world, toned down the too-harsh colors. With the coming of twilight, the sky seemed to recede; the universe expanded. The night was bigger than the day, and in its realm, life seemed to have more possibilities.” ― Dean Koontz

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awareness.

January 5, 2018 § Leave a comment

“you can’t get away from yourself by moving from one place to another.” – Ernest Hemmingway

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Manti-La Sal National Forest

Manti-La Sal National Forest

https://www.wheretraveler.com/play/america-beautiful-14-spectacular-national-forests

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“The greatest thing in the world is to know how to belong to oneself.” ― Michel de Montaigne

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Wasatchcache National Forest

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“At the center of your being
you have the answer;
you know who you are
and you know what you want.” ― Lao Tzu

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arches_winter

Arches National Park

http://www.discovermoab.com/archesnationalpark.htm

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“To live in the world without becoming aware of the meaning of the world is like wandering about in a great library without touching the books.” – Dan Brown

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Near Escalante and Boulder

https://www.ksl.com/index.php?sid=44848051&nid=1268&title=utahs-top-5-motorcycle-rides

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“It’s worth making time to find the things that really stir your soul. That’s what makes you really feel alive. You have to say ‘no’ to other things you’re used to, and do it with all your heart.” – Roy T. Bennett

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Red Canyon in the Dixie National Forest

Red Canyon in the Dixie National Forest

http://www.scenicusa.net/080211.html

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“There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and it will be lost. The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine how good it is nor how valuable nor how it compares with other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly, to keep the channel open. You do not even have to believe in yourself or your work. You have to keep yourself open and aware to the urges that motivate you. Keep the channel open. … No artist is pleased. [There is] no satisfaction whatever at any time. There is only a queer divine dissatisfaction, a blessed unrest that keeps us marching and makes us more alive than the others” – Martha Graham

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Sardine Canyon

Sardine Canyon

http://www.thearmchairexplorer.com/utah/uinta-wasatch-cache-national-forest

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“Don’t compromise yourself. You’re all you’ve got.” ― Janis Joplin

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Fishlake

Fishlake NF

https://utah.com/fish-lake-national-forest

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“Find out who you are and do it on purpose.” ― Dolly Parton

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fishlake-national-forest-stream

Fishlake National Forest

https://southwestdesertlover.wordpress.com/tag/utah-national-forests/

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“Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.” – Bell Hooks

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